As busy as a bee
We went to Robinsons on Saturday with the 2 cherubs. I had a blast cos we shopped for Moi things. Thanks to my honey dearest who catered to my every whims and demands. Me being the perfume freak that I am, keep changing my mind on what to wear/use this Hari Raya but we have decided on ................. Echo by Davidoff. Both of us we wearing Lanvin last year thus we decided to have a change. Bought a lot of other stuff but I'm not going to post it here cos I want to surprise my sisters. hehehehehe
There's this one Auntie who was so taken by Bu that she followed us for a few minutes just to look at him. LOL.
On Sunday, we did some spring cleaning. My 2nd sis and I cleaned up the shoe cabinets and guess what....... It seems that my mum might be related to Imelda Marcos..........cos both of them LOVE shoes. We threw out 5 full bags of shoes. And it's not those small bags but it's those big black trash bags!!! Yes 5 full bags of shoes although not all of it were mum's though. But hers were the majority. We were joking to her that she should go and shop for more shoes to fill up those empty shelves. They also painted the house yesterday and I took some candid shots and will try to post it later.
(provided my sister did not delete it yet) Till then, enjoy your spring cleaning, peeps!!!
Between a rock and a hard place
Hhhmmmm, not to sure if I should post this?........ Whateverlah, this is my blog and I can jolly well write what i want to? right? right?
I have a friend whoose husband is into porn. Apparently, she had caught him downloading porn into his h/p (yep, his h/p), he have a stack of porn vcd's which he hides from her and he loves to watch porn when she's asleep(she woke up and saw him doing the M thing) or when she's not home. She had confronted her husband abt it and obviously the husband defended his actions and said that it's the norm and all that crap that men feed you when they think that they are in the right. Anyways, she decided to forgive him and he promised to change. But one day, that stooopid idiot left a porn vcd in the vcd player and she found out about it. So now she said that she had lost her trust in her husband. She said that although she decided not to make a big issue of finding the disc in the player, she cannot really forget about it. It's actually "eating " her up inside. She said that she tries to act normally but the love she felt for her husband is of cos not the same as before. She would get angry with him easily, she talked to him like she's better than him, etc. Basically, she had lost all respect for him. She said that she actually hates him sometimes but she is trying her best to change her marriage for the better. She tried to be more adventurous in bed, she makes love to him whenever he wants, blah, blah. But she said that the feelings she have for him is of cos different now from when they first got married. She told me that the hatred is like wound, it's get bigger and nastier if left untreated.
She's wondering if they should go for counselling or let nature takes it course and let the matter die it's own slow death. Divorce is not an option cos she do not believe in it.
Well, if you were me what advice would you give her?
The Mural artist
Haiz, my darling Miz K have decided to become a Mural artist. She went to paint/scribbled the living room walls. Aaargh, and hari raya is coming but none of us are free to repaint the walls. Any volunteers out there?
We decided not to punish her this time cos it's the 1st time that she did it. But the next time, hmmm .......
Shop till I drop
Went shopping with hubby last Saturday and we decided to bring Mr Bu with us. Miz K was down with stomach flu so she had to stay home. Surprisingly, she was quite okay with it, maybe b'cos she was tired from her frequent trips to the loo. Hahaha....
Oooohhhhhhh, the clothes for girls was just so pretty. I saw so many that I wanted to buy for Miz K unfortunately or should i say fortunately hubby put a stop to it. Otherwise, Takashimaya will be left empty.....LOL.
Bought a few rompers for Mr Bu but I wasn't too happy abt it cos it all looks the same. Baby boys clothes are just too limited!! Might be going to Mothercare later to check out their range. I just love their clothes although it's a bit expensive but to me it's really worth it. My mum was telling me that Bu had out grown most of his rompers cos he's getting rounder and rounder everyday. Can you imagine, he's only 4 months and he had outgrown all his 3 - 6 months clothes. I was quite sad cos I just bought him the clothes like a month or so ago. Told my mum that I wanted to keep it cos it's all so new. And my mum was telling me this, if I keep the clothes, there will be a HIGH chance that I will be having another baby but if I were to give it away then the chances were lower. It's an old wives tales or superstitious although I don't normally believe in old wives tales but for this I will follow it to a T. Will be giving it to my cousin who had just given birth last Monday.
Hubby bought 2 shirts for himself while I ................ didn't get anything!! Can you believe it? No? Neither can I ......... Hahaha,
I jadi ibu dan isteri misthali you:p
Naah, it's just that I did not see anything that I wanna buy howeverI saw 3 pairs of shoes that i like and 1 of them was by Bonia but hubby was saying that it was for makcik-makciks..... He said that he always associate that brand with makciks so that's a no-no. Wouldn't want to be associated with makciks you. While the other 2 was too high for hubby's liking. He reminded me that I had to carry Mr Bu hence he was really against me wearing high heeled shoes.
Haiz......have to wait for this Thursday to go shop for my things....
It's sad
Heard from dh yesterday that the policeman who died in the accident was his colleague's hubby. I find it very sad cos she's 4 months pregnant and they have a 4 yr old child. It must really be very devastating for her to be losing her husband while pregnant and in the month of Ramadan. I really cannot imagine losing my husband at such a young age and having two children to raise. To me, my husband is my pillar of strength, my confidant, my best friend, my shoulder to cry on, my wings, my lover and so much more. I do admit that my marriage is not perfect and I do at times feel like strangling him myself but to lose him............. is like losing a part of myself which can never be replaced. There is Malay saying which goes like this " yang patah akan tumbuh dan yang hilang pasti akan berganti" Which literally means that there will be a replacement for the thing that you lost. But to me the replacement is still not the same thing. I do empathize but if I were to be in her shoes.......... I guess that it's not something which I want to find out.
WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
Read this from the internet and just wanted to share.........
When tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not here to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me.
I wish so much you wouldn’t cry the way you did today,
While thinking of the many things we didn’t get to say.
I know how you love me, as much as I love you, and each time you think of me,
I know you’ll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand.
And said my place was ready in heaven far above,
And that I’d have to leave behind all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I’d always thought I didn’t want to die;
I had so much to live for and so much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday, I thought, just for a while,
I’d say goodbye and kiss you, maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized that this could never be,
For emptiness and memories would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things that I’d miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heavens gates, I felt so much at home,
When God looked down and smiled at me, from his great golden throne.
He said, “This is eternity and I’ve promised you.
Today your life on earth is past and here it starts anew;
I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last,
And since each day’s the same day, there no longing for the past.
You have been so faithful, so trusting and so true,
Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn’t do.
But you have been forgiven and now at last you’re free.
So won’t you take my hand and share my life with me?”
So when tomorrow starts without me, don’t think we’re far apart,
For every time you think of me, I’m right here in your heart.
My New Layout
Yeah!! I did it. I managed to change this by myself. Not bad for someone who just started blogging, eh? My tech guy is busy with his O' levels so no time to update this for me. Since I'm so free at work today, I decided to do this.
Hey, it's Friday. Have a great weekend people. Enjoy!!
I've been trying to attach my new blog website. Not sure if this works otherwise I will upgrade this blog. Got to call my techie guy to change this template for me though. So guys, *akan datang*.....sabarlah menanti ye.
Till then, selamat tinggal...
