Between a rock and a hard place
Hhhmmmm, not to sure if I should post this?........ Whateverlah, this is my blog and I can jolly well write what i want to? right? right?I have a friend whoose husband is into porn. Apparently, she had caught him downloading porn into his h/p (yep, his h/p), he have a stack of porn vcd's which he hides from her and he loves to watch porn when she's asleep(she woke up and saw him doing the M thing) or when she's not home. She had confronted her husband abt it and obviously the husband defended his actions and said that it's the norm and all that crap that men feed you when they think that they are in the right. Anyways, she decided to forgive him and he promised to change. But one day, that stooopid idiot left a porn vcd in the vcd player and she found out about it. So now she said that she had lost her trust in her husband. She said that although she decided not to make a big issue of finding the disc in the player, she cannot really forget about it. It's actually "eating " her up inside. She said that she tries to act normally but the love she felt for her husband is of cos not the same as before. She would get angry with him easily, she talked to him like she's better than him, etc. Basically, she had lost all respect for him. She said that she actually hates him sometimes but she is trying her best to change her marriage for the better. She tried to be more adventurous in bed, she makes love to him whenever he wants, blah, blah. But she said that the feelings she have for him is of cos different now from when they first got married. She told me that the hatred is like wound, it's get bigger and nastier if left untreated.
She's wondering if they should go for counselling or let nature takes it course and let the matter die it's own slow death. Divorce is not an option cos she do not believe in it.
Well, if you were me what advice would you give her?
tart but sweet 1 hot mama @ 10:07 AM
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